You can have it all–whatever that means for you. But first, YOU have to believe it.
Hey–I’m Jennifer Blanchard! I’m a multi-passionate author, the Feel-Good Life Coach and a Mindset Alchemist for practical humans who are ready to create the life they desire and deserve–from the inside out.
I believe feeling good is the point of life and the path to everything you dream of and desire.
My story goes a little something like this…
It was the summer of 2018. I was in a marriage that had more than run its course. We were doing the polite we-know-we-shouldn’t-be-together-but-it’s-easier-to-ignore-the-elephant-in-the-room-than-it-is-to face-it-and-break-up dance for far too long, and I was over it.
The problem was, I didn’t fully trust myself to make a decision of that magnitude. Even though I knew what I wanted–and that what I had wasn’t it–I still worried I was wrong. I felt afraid I’d make a huge mistake and regret it.
So I decided to do something I had never done before–I decided to surrender it to God/the Universe.
Standing in the bathroom of the apartment I shared with my now-ex-husband, I closed my eyes and I said: God/Universe–I think I want to end my relationship. I’m not happy and I haven’t been for a long time now. I don’t think he’s happy either, it doesn’t feel like he is, but I honestly don’t know. I feel so stuck and unsure. God/Universe, I surrender this to you. I don’t know what to do and I can’t keep trying to figure it out myself. I am delegating this to you to figure out for me. If this is truly the right relationship for me, I trust that it will shift in some way, and if it’s not the right one, I ask that you have him break up with me. That way I know for sure.
Not long after that day, I downloaded a message that completely changed my life. I was listening to an Abraham-Hicks audio on YouTube and suddenly a phrase hit me, like a lightning bolt: Feeling good is the point and the path.
It’s like everything I had learned about spirituality and Law of Attraction and manifestation all came together into a simple, clear message that I understood completely in every ounce of my being.
In that moment, I decided that I would put my total and complete focus on feeling as good as possible for as long as possible, every single day.
And that’s exactly what I did. I created a feel-good morning routine. I scheduled feel-good breaks throughout my day. I checked-in constantly on how I was feeling and I shifted myself back to feeling good whenever I wasn’t.
I was relentless. I didn’t let anything mess with my vibe. I just chose to ignore what wasn’t feeling good in my life and focus entirely on what was and on creating more good-feeling feelings.
I joy-ified my apartment. I started spending more time outside. I went to my favorite Starbucks and Whole Foods cafe several times a week instead of staying at home to work.
I did tons of inner-work, healing old stories, beliefs, and offering forgiveness to myself and the people who hurt me in the past. I no longer wanted to hold onto anything negative. Anything blocking my feel-good had to go.
And less than 90 days later, a miracle happened: on January 8, 2019, my (now-ex) husband asked me for a divorce.
Our split was amicable and peaceful and had an underlying feeling of certainty. I’d never experienced anything like that before, especially when it came to something that would usually be tough or even traumatic.
Not only did God/the Universe bring me exactly what I asked for, but the way it all played out further cemented my belief that feeling good is the point AND the path.
Feeling good is the point–it’s the point of every single thing you want. You want the things you want because you believe having them will make you feel good.
And feeling good is also the path to receiving those things. Everything is energy, and everything has a vibrational frequency. The things you want are on a frequency that feels good. When you feel good, you match that frequency and the things you want can come to you with ease, like a magnet.
But when you’re constantly focusing on the negative or what you don’t have or the misfortunes of your current reality, you literally block the things you want from coming to you. That way of being is a low-vibrational energy and can only attract more of the same.
If I had surrendered and asked God/the Universe to help me, but then spent all of my time worrying and wallowing and in fear, I would probably still be miserable and in that marriage.
But because I decided to instead focus on feeling good, I put myself on the same energetic frequency as the result I wanted: my now-ex-husband breaking up with me.
Since then, I have used the power of my mindset and energetic frequency (aka vibration) to create the life of my absolute dreams, including cleaning up my inner BS around my worth and having it all, burning my old business to the ground and building the purpose-based business I’ve always dreamed of, and meeting the love of my life.
There’s so much more to come, and I can’t wait to share this journey with you.