“Dream life” is such an overused but under-defined phrase in the personal development industry. So I thought I’d share how I define it.
A Dream Life is: a life so aligned with your desires and values that it feels like you’re living in a dream.
It’s NOT about traveling all the time or having a ton of money or the biggest house or trendiest car or what-the-fuck ever. Although that’s what the industry will present to you as the dream life most of the time.
I made a list of all of my books this morning and reminisced about when I wrote them.
And I noticed something…
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I’m a recovering control freak.
I used to get SO caught up in the Hows of making my dreams and desires a reality.
And if I couldn’t clearly see HOW something was possible for me or How I could STEP BY STEP make it happen, I wouldn’t go for it.
I would stop myself or hold myself back from even admitting that I wanted it.
At times, I went so far as to make fun of those things—“what a ridiculous idea that is haha”—while secretly harboring a desire for it.
Not knowing the How was always the thorn in my side.
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So many of us are fucked up around money because we’ve been taught and programmed to believe nonsense bullshiz that isn’t actually true.
Then we don’t talk about it because talking about it makes us “bad” and “not PC.” So we go about our lives not feeling good about money.
And that just bugs me to no end.
That’s why I’m so open with my money journey. Because I want you to see that you’re not alone.
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A few years ago, I was in a 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 bad place with my money.
I had suddenly stopped making the $5k-$8k per month I was used to making. Money began trickling instead of flowing. And all of my bad money habits caught up with me.
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