Are You Ignoring The Most Important Part Of Making Your Dreams Happen?

I spend a lot of time with creative people—both online and in person—and one of the commonalities I find is this: struggle.

Creative people, for the most part, have a belief that being successful as an artist and creator is a struggle. That it has to be hard.

And that’s why, for so many creatives, it is. It’s a struggle and it’s hard.

No one is paying attention. No one is interested. No one is buying.

Those are the complaints I hear creative people speaking on a regular basis.

But here’s the problem… and it’s two-fold.

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Your Worthiness Is Never A Question

When you feel unworthy on a subconscious level, you will attract things, do things, make decisions to try and create that worthiness externally. “If I have enough external validation, then I’ll be worthy.”

But that feeling of worthiness is fleeting because it’s not coming from inside of you.

So you continue to look for ways to create that worthiness in your external reality: achieve that goal, buy that thing, earn that title, climb the corporate ladder, make even more money, etc. And it does make you feel pretty good… for a little while.

But at the end of the day, it never sticks. It always just feels empty.

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What If You Just Decided To Believe That Life, Success, Business, And Money Only Curve Up As You Journey Along?

When I woke up this morning, God said to me: “Did you know there are mathematical curves that only curve up?”

Now, I’m not one for math, so I grabbed my phone and Googled “mathematical curves that only go up.” What I discovered is that there’s a curve called the Exponential Growth Curve where things start off slow and then shift upward and never curve back down.

The growth of the exponential curve increases over time, and always in an upward direction.

This may seem like an odd thing for God to say to me, but since September 1, I have been deep into some hardcore money mindset work. And one of the limiting beliefs I’m reprogramming is that “all good things eventually end.” Another way to say this limiting belief would be: the other shoe will drop, knock on wood or something bad will happen, it’s always feast or famine, what goes up must come down, etc.

You probably have this same limiting belief, just said in a different way.

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Until You Reclaim Your Worthiness, You’re Gonna Keep Getting More Of The Same

This was my relationship story for most of my life: I don’t get to have the guy I really want.

It started in fifth grade. I had a huge crush on this guy in my class, but he didn’t like me back. My 10-year-old self made that mean I wasn’t good enough or worthy of having the guy I want.

That continued to be my story, all through middle school, high school, college, and then into my early 20s.

Anytime I liked or had a crush on a guy, he never felt the same way. Or, if he did, it was always temporary and then he would ditch me for someone else.

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