How To Heal Split Energy

For anyone not familiar with the phrase, “split energy” is when you’re constantly going back and forth on something.

One minute it’s this, the next minute it’s that.

Back and forth you go. Over and over again.

That’s split energy. And split energy comes from one thing and one thing only: You haven’t made a decision yet (even if you think you have).

When you make a decision and fully back it, there’s no wavering. There’s no questioning. There’s no back and forth.

There’s simply the decision you’ve made, you are standing behind it in all ways, and you will allow nothing less.

The way to heal split energy is to finally and fully make a decision.

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How To Act As If: A Masterclass

The recording above is from a livestream I did on my TikTok the other day (TT: @fuckthehow).

I shared all about how to act as if and get whatever you want. 

I answered a ton of questions and gave a bunch of specific examples to help you begin implementing this in your own life. 

You definitely don’t want to miss this video!!

Deciding Is Always The First Step To The How Revealing Itself To You

There are resources out there for every single thing you desire to do, be, and have, the only reason the How for your dream hasn’t shown itself to you yet is because you haven’t DECIDED.

In my early 20s, I was living in SoCal and working at a magazine. It was my dream during college to be a magazine editor, so I was loving life.

But there was this other thing I also wanted to do. It was nagging me day in and day out.

I love fashion, and back then I was super into jewelry and accessories. I couldn’t get enough. I also loved making jewelry, for myself and for people who saw what I made and wanted me to make them something too.

I’d been considering starting a handmade jewelry business, but I hadn’t pulled the trigger on it because I had no idea how to even get started.

So I sat on the idea and did nothing. Until a year or so later when I attended the Landmark Forum and the Advanced Course.

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You Have To Learn To Set The How Aside

Something I’ve gotten really good at over the years is being able to set the How aside when it comes to my dreams and desires and go for it anyhow. Sure, I have areas where it’s more challenging for me than in other areas, but overall, not knowing the How rarely stops me.

I’ve just always been a dreamer since I was a very young child, and I’ve always believed that I got to live my dreams (even if I have resistance to certain ones). One of the good things I was programmed with early on in life was to always follow my heart, and that has served me very well.

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What If Not Knowing How Was No Longer An Obstacle?

You’ve been wrongly taught that you have to know How you’ll do something before you do it. Or that the How even matters to begin with.

Not knowing How then becomes a barrier that stops you, sabotages you and gets in the way of you doing the thing(s) you know you’re meant to be. 

But the truth is, you never, ever, ever, ever, ever… need to know How you’ll do something before you take the first step. No matter what it is you desire and dream of. 

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