Before yesterday’s Leap Day, I’ve played small. Downplayed my gifts. Believed I don’t matter that much and my work isn’t that important.
And then I attended a masterclass led by online coach, Melanie Ann Layer, and it made me realize what I’ve been doing up until now: playing not to lose. For me, that looked like:
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Show of hands–Have you ever lost something only to later find it was right in front of your face the whole time?🙋🏻♀️
The reason you couldn’t see it even though it was there came down to one thing: your belief that it was lost.
And because you believed it was lost, your subconscious mind blocks you from being able to see it.
You could literally be holding the missing item in your hand and not even realize it’s there for a short period of time because you think it’s missing. (Think about when someone “can’t find their glasses” and then later they realize the glasses are on their head.)
Your brain will play tricks on you like that sometimes.
Why?
“Dream life” is such an overused but under-defined phrase in the personal development industry. So I thought I’d share how I define it.
A Dream Life is: a life so aligned with your desires and values that it feels like you’re living in a dream.
It’s NOT about traveling all the time or having a ton of money or the biggest house or trendiest car or what-the-fuck ever. Although that’s what the industry will present to you as the dream life most of the time.
For. those times when you think you’re “too old” or it’s “too late” to do, be, or have what you dream of…
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You create your own reality. Which means whatever reality you decide—and then continue to decide and affirm—will be true for you eventually will be (that or something even better you don’t know about yet).
You don’t have to know how, you just have to have faith and then do your part while staying out of the Universe’s way so it can do its part.
And it doesn’t matter what society, or other people, or your current physical reality has to say about it.
The only thing that matters is your decision and then continuing to back that same decision with your thoughts, beliefs, feelings, and actions until it or something even better becomes your new reality.
🔥💯🎉
