A year ago this month I was writing what would go on to become my first Amazon best selling book: Align Your Writing Habits to Success. I had no idea that was going to happen with that book. It wasn’t even a thought in my mind.
Because the only thing I was thinking about was the decision I just made to become a best selling author on Amazon in 2016 and the action I was taking next, which was to write and publish more books.
And that’s where Align Your Writing Habits to Success came in. After making the decision to become a best selling Amazon author and to write and publish more books, I received a Divine Download to take the content from the free 30-day writing habits challenge I created and turn it into an eBook.
So I did it. I took action and a few weeks later, Align Your Writing Habits to Success debuted on Amazon, hit #1 in the Authorship category and then stayed in the top 6 for a couple months.
In hindsight I can see the reason why this all happened as quickly as it did… because I decided that it would and then I took action.
Deciding is a HUGE part of achieving your goal. In fact, I can see now that not fully deciding and then taking action is a big part of why I spun my wheels in my writing life for so many years.
Because deciding cuts off all other options. Deciding says THIS IS WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN. Deciding means you’re putting your full belief in the goal you’re going after.
You may not know how it’s going to happen or when, but you can absolutely decide that it will happen and the details will work themselves out. But to do this requires something most people have a very hard time with (myself included at times)… Trust.
You must KNOW in your heart and soul that you are MEANT for whatever you want to achieve. You must FEEL IT. But even with that level of belief in yourself and in your goal, you must also have TRUST and FAITH in the Universe to deliver what you’re asking for, so long as you do your part (your part = deciding and then taking action).
The trust component to creating success is so important! And yet it often gets overlooked. You’ve probably experienced this first-hand. (I know I have!)
You want something. You want it bad. You dream about it at night and think about it all day long. It’s yours.
Except it’s not showing up in your reality. You’re not actually experiencing it or holding it in your hands. It’s not real in your world.
And you wonder why.
You’re doing the work. You’re showing up pretty consistently. You thought you were making some progress. And yet… nothing.
What it all comes down to, is trust.
If you’re feeling impatient or if you’re looking around at your reality and saying, “it’s not working” or “it’s not showing up,” then you’re not trusting. You’re actually doing the opposite of trusting.
You’re stuck in lack thinking and you’re afraid.
You’re looking around and noticing the lack of the thing you’re asking for, rather than trusting that you placed your order and you’re doing the work, which means what you’re asking for will eventually show up. Not having patience means you’re afraid that what you want won’t actually happen or that you’re not meant for it or that someone else may beat you to it (impossible, by the way, as there are things that only you are meant for and could ever do).
And that’s why deciding is such a huge part of creating what you want.
Because without deciding that it’s DONE and that it’s YOURS and no one and nothing in the world can take it away from you–even if you don’t physically see it in your reality or hold it in your hands right this minute–you’ll just continue to be impatient and continue to look around and say, “this isn’t working.”
And that’s where you’ll stay. Stuck and spinning your wheels.
Because the truth is, it’s always whatever you decide that it is.
So if you decide it’s not working or you’re not meant for it, well, guess what? That’s exactly what you’re going to experience.
But when you decide that it’s yours–even if you don’t have it yet–and when you feel it on every level of your being, that’s when it will come to you. And not a minute before.
But once you get there, once you get to making that decision and having that infinite trust and feeling in your soul that it’s yours and its on its way to you, it will show up so fast your head might actually spin.
There was less than a month between when I fully decided I was going to be a best selling author in 2016 and when it actually happened.
A month! After years and years of not allowing myself to want it because I had no idea how I’d make it happen, it happened. Within a month of deciding.
That’s how powerful deciding and then taking action can be when you let it.
So, what will you decide?
Write with a purpose, live with intention,
2 Replies to “If You Never Decide and Then Take Action, You’ll Spin Your Wheels and Stay In the Same Place”
I am so thankful to come across your direct words of wisdom. It’s true. It’s all true. I know it’s true, yet I still fear. Time to jump in.
@LaVillegas You’re welcome! Fear is a part of the creative process. If you can learn to act in spite of fear, nothing will ever stand in your way.